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Thursday, March 18, 2010

Thursday's Notes

The laptop has picked up a virus from facebook, I think. It has been a nuisance for a couple of weeks now. Anyway, better-half has had the laptop trying to debug it. Hence, I haven't had much time online.

My fast isn't going well. It's Spring Break (Really? What was I thinking?) Having extra kids each day is going well. Thankfully, we have had tons of sunshine!! I'll try to be back tomorrow with a more "regular" post, but today I am going to leave you with one of my all time favorite stories, which you have probably seen before. It's okay....I read it over and over! Enjoy!

The Daffodil Principle

Several times my daughter, Julie, had telephoned to say, "Mom, you must come see the daffodils before they are over." I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from my place by the beach to her lakeside mountain home.

"I will come next Tuesday," I promised, a little reluctantly, on her third call. The next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and so I got in the car and began the long, tedious drive.

When I finally walked into Julie's house and hugged and greeted my grandchildren, I said, "Forget the daffodils, Julie! The road is invisible in the clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and the children that I want to see bad enough to drive another inch!"

My daughter smiled calmly, "We drive in this all the time, Mom."

"Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears and then I'm heading straight for home!" I said, rather emphatically.

"Gee, Mom, I was hoping you'd take me over to the garage to pick up my car," Julie said with a forlorn look in her eyes.

"How far will we have to drive?"

Smiling she answered, "Just a few blocks, I'll drive ... I'm used to this."

After several minutes on the cold, foggy road, I had to ask "Where are we going? This isn't the way to the garage!"

"We're going to the garage the long way," Julie smiled, "by way of the daffodils."

"Julie," I said sternly, "please turn around."

"It's all right, Mom, I promise, you will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience."

After about twenty minutes we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side of the church I saw a hand-lettered sign ...

"Daffodil Garden"

We got out of the car and each took a child's hand, and I followed Julie down the path. As we turned a corner of the path, and I looked up and gasped.

Before me lay the most glorious sight. It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of gold and poured it down over the mountain peak and slopes. The flowers were planted in majestic, swirling patterns, great ribbons and swaths of deep orange, white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, saffron, and butter yellow. Each different-colored variety was planted as a group so that it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue.

Five acres of the most beautiful flowers I had ever seen!

"Who planted all these?" I asked Julie.

"It's just one woman," Julie answered, "She lives on the property. That's her home," and she pointed to a well-kept A-frame house that looked small and modest in the midst of all that glory.

We walked up to the house and on the little patio we saw a poster ...

Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking

50,000 bulbs
one at a time
by one woman
2 hands, 2 feet
and very little brain
Began in 1958

There it was ... "The Daffodil Principle"

For me that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than thirty-five years before, had begun - one bulb at a time - to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountain top.

Still, this unknown, old woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. She had created something of magnificent beauty, and inspiration.

The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration:

* learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time, (often just one baby-step at a time)
* learning to love the doing,
* learning to use the accumulation of time

When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.

"It makes me sad in a way," I admitted to Julie, "What might I have accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five years ago and had worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all those years. Just think what I might have been able to achieve!"

My daughter summed up the message of the day in her direct way, "Start tomorrow, Mom," she said, "It's so pointless to think of the lost hours of our yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson a celebration instead of a cause for regret is to only ask ... "

"How can I put this to use today?"

May your day be blessed!

Georgie, if you read this....I missed you! Tried to comment on your site last night (wonderful pictures!), but my signal wasn't good.


  1. Great story! I hope you get rid of that nasty virus on your laptop!

  2. That's wonderful. Planting a bulb is always an act of faith for the future.

  3. I hope the virus gets fixed...I love flowers thanks for sharing

  4. Sorry about the FB virus! Seems to be a lot of that going around lately. :( I think there must be a special corner in Hades for people who intentionally wreak havoc and create chaos in the lives of people they don't even know! Anyway ... it's nice to see you again!

    Thanks for the Daffodil Principle. I had read the story before and was tempted to skip over it but it was a lesson that God wanted to remind me of today. We have an adult child whose choices today have us looking at yesterday and wishing we had made other choices. I needed a reminder that while I cannot change yesterday ... I can change tomorrow! And tiny steps taken each day add up to a mountain conquered!

    Thanks for your faitfulness to follow His prompting! He used you to bless me! :)

  5. very good story loved the idea

  6. Beth, there are times we all question if we did something right (or if we were wrong). We do the best we can at the time.

    I know you would never make a decision that would bring harm to anyone in the future, much less a child. Forgive yourself and move forward. Doubting oneself is a lie from the enemy.


  7. It's amazing that someone actually has that much patience to plant so many flowers, for so many years! Great story.

  8. I've never heard it, but it makes a lot of sense. Is it true? I'd love to see a photo :)


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